Last night he told me he doesnt know how we are going to "do this" meaning our relationship. He said he feels like we are forcing it and that i seem happier with my friends. This is a complete suprise to me. I didnt know he felt this way. And i think i know why he feels this way.I havent been spending much time with him. Lately i havent been going to sleep when he does. I have been staying up to have me time. Its calm here at night and i love just being able to sit around without having to chase a baby, fix a sippy cup, or do other mommy things. But i do enjoy the time. I know i have been putting my wants in front of his which i dont like at all. I feel like an awful wife and i know i hurt him alot lately. What can i do to make it up to him? When i asked him he just acted like he didnt wanna tell me.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on Apr. 13, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by zoejains_momma at 10:54 AM on Apr. 13, 2011
Life is TOO SHORT to waste around with someone that doesnt want you. Id tell him to pack his crap and hit the road. I will never sacrifice myself for someone else again or waste my time. That might seem cold hearted but I wasted 10 years with a piece of shit and that will never happen again.
I have seen this happen with other girls/women I know.Try to put HIM first instead of your girlfriends and your Mommy duties. He is your husband and deserves FIRST PLACE in your heart.Make him feel that way. I have seen too many of MY friends put their girlfriends first as if they are all still in high school. Its time to grow up and let them know that your DH comes first. And be a WOMAN, not a MOM.when he is home. Explain to him,though,that you need some quiet time alone and it doesn't mean that you are trying to ignore him. Good luck!
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