One of my very good friends will not talk to me. Do I let it go and wait for her to come to me? To I reach out to her?
Her SO has lived with her for almost 7 years. She pays all bills in the house including house payment. Something has always seemed a little off with the relationship. I was never able to pinpoint what. She called me and let it all out last week. I told her what I thought after she asked my opinion. Now she will not speak to me.
He is STILL MARRIED. He claims he was not divorcing his wife until after his dd graduated college. She graduated 4 years ago!!! He claims he has started the divorce process. She does not know whether to believe him.
He has lived on her dime all this time. While living on her dime he was paying ALL of his wife's bills. His wife does not work!!!
I feel miserable for my friend. She did put herself in this situation. I understand she did. I do not know whether to reach out to her or not. Do I just wait for her to come to me? You know she will eventually need a strong shoulder to cry on. She DID ask for my opinion. I was honest with her. I gave her the outsider looking in stand point. She became angry and has not contacted me since.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:07 PM on Apr. 13, 2011 in Relationships
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