What would you do?
We have three son's and each of them has had a pregnancy scare, although we've educated them on BC and harp on them about safe sex.
I've told the gf's that no matter WHAT if there was a baby, we'd support her mentally and help her out, regardless of what happened in the relationship.
My youngest son, tried saying they couldn't have a baby now...we told him if he was old enough to ****, he was old enough to deal with a baby, and abortion was NOT a choice!
We believe its the woman's choice, but not our grandchild.
Answer by calliesmommie at 7:24 PM on Apr. 13, 2011
I can understand the "not my grandchild" part. It's different when it hits close to home, always is. But in reality it's not even HIS choice to start with. She can choose to have an abortion without needing any of your consent. What does she say?
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 7:26 PM on Apr. 13, 2011
It won't be your choice at all. You probably won't get to raise the child either. It sounds like you are eager for this event to happen. I can't say what I would do until I was actually in that situation which I hope I never am. I also would not be so willing or upfront with the girlfriends either. Seems like you are encouraging them by saying "don't worry, we'll raise it". Sounds odd to me, sorry.
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