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My boyfriend just moved back to Ny because we r just not meant to be together but we have a 4 month old baby boy who loves his daddy very much & lights up when he walks in the room & starts smiling & kicking his feet in excitement. Is he going to notice he is gone? Will this affect him?

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ahsweetness

Asked by ahsweetness at 7:58 PM on Apr. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Probably not though he'll know his dads not around when he gets bigger
    rhonda111787

    Answer by rhonda111787 at 7:59 PM on Apr. 13, 2011

  • He'll know hes gone...but babies forget quickly. He's going to ask questions later.
    k.raine

    Answer by k.raine at 7:59 PM on Apr. 13, 2011

  • I think he will forget about him fast. But yeah once hes getting older its a different story.
    LittleBirdFly

    Answer by LittleBirdFly at 8:00 PM on Apr. 13, 2011

  • He'll get over it, but isn't BD planning on a relationship with him??
    jspenny2705

    Answer by jspenny2705 at 8:45 PM on Apr. 13, 2011

  • Yes, every effort should be made to have the dad connect with his child in some form, a call, card, visit anything to support the child as he grows up. If this guy is not a good person, unable to connect with his child or if he has habits that would cause harm to the child then the relationship should be discouraged or whatever contact made, if the man is not stable, supervised visitation by a responsible person. He has legal mandates to help to support the child, raising a child alone is an awesome responsibility. If contact cannot be made the child needs to know, yes you do have a dad and..... I wish you well as your journey is long but you have a child that needs and loves you. Good Luck
    chillywilly10

    Answer by chillywilly10 at 8:57 PM on Apr. 13, 2011

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