Should I have a voice since I'm the one that has to live with the stress my husband goes through when his parents or siblings are having issues? Sometimes when he's stressed he takes it out on me and as much as it might hurt my feelings, I do understand that tends to happen in relationships. Not that it makes it right. Should I stay out of it and let my husband figure it out and just continue to be supportive? Or should I be involving myself, like letting them know that their problems are causing him undue stress which in turn gets us into marital problems? I just feel that his family sometimes can't handle adult life without dragging others into it (mostly dragging my husband) and it just turns into a huge mess that stresses me out along with him. I don't want to alienate them either or offend anyone but they don't have to live my husband either.
Answer by SpiffySnaps at 3:19 AM on Apr. 14, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 3:02 AM on Apr. 14, 2011
Answer by SpiffySnaps at 3:23 AM on Apr. 14, 2011
Answer by Ms.Gwen at 9:06 AM on Apr. 14, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 12:57 PM on Apr. 14, 2011