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How would you feel if you found out that your husband/boyfriend was living a double life after three years?

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Chunky_Dynamic

Asked by Chunky_Dynamic at 6:39 PM on Apr. 14, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I would totally freak. Then get. Mad
    juliemomx2

    Answer by juliemomx2 at 6:41 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • Betrayed, stupid, angry, upset.... you name it I would imagine I'd feel it. I'm sure I'd rack my mind as to why I didnt realize then all the pieces would probably fall together. Then I'd be full on rage & anger. Weather I stayed with him or not depended on what he was doing in his double life or not ya know? Sorry if this is the case for you.
    Mel30248

    Answer by Mel30248 at 6:41 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • I would freak out, and probably just walk away.
    amberdawnbarr

    Answer by amberdawnbarr at 6:44 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • I might become a felon....
    amazinggrace83

    Answer by amazinggrace83 at 6:44 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • take a bat to his head... j/k lol but I'd be hurt and feel betrayed, then get pissed... kind of like I am feeling now.
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:44 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • haha amazinggrace
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:45 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • Wow. The first word that comes to mind is TRUST. Big problem if he could successfully hide that from you for 3 years. I would not and could not ever trust or believe another thing he ever said. In three years how many times do you imagine he's lied to cover up his double life. It would be over for me. No conversation needed, nothing he could say or do would change my mind.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 6:46 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • ..another one bites the dust.
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 6:51 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • Trust is a huge part of my fiance and my life, maybe and I mean maybe if he can come up with a good explanation I would keep our engagement. If not he can kick rocks.
    ajmcheath

    Answer by ajmcheath at 6:52 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • I would feel hurt and betrayed and mad ,upset with him and would really talk and get some answers from him
    Donnabell_nyc

    Answer by Donnabell_nyc at 6:56 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

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