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What do you think about this?

My fiance is currently paying for his ex wifes cell phone. He told her he was going to cut it off so she needed to get a new phone. In their papers there is a time set up for them to call the kids. Every morning and evening between 7 and 730 the parent is required to allow the other parent to talk to the kids. She came up with the delusion that he has to provide his own way to talk to the kids and that she doesn't have to give him her new number. She says she's providing herself a way to call the kids at her expense so he has to provide himself a way. Would paying for his own cell phone not be providing a way to talk to them at his own expense?? I think she's done flown off the deep end.


Asked by Anonymous at 10:41 PM on Apr. 14, 2011 in General Parenting

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Answers (8)
  • SHE has to provide herself with a way for him to contact the kids. HE does not have to pay for it and if she doesn't give him her number, she can be held in contempt of court.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 10:42 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • she cant do that! He has the right to have a number to get a hold of the kids

    Answer by angelrach86 at 10:45 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • Jademom07 said it perfectly. Unless he agreed in custody paperwork to provide a cell phone to his ex.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 10:46 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • She's just trying to one up him. What a lousy way to make him pay for HER cell phone. Apparently she's still a bit bitter. How sad for her...Oh you see why she's an EX!

    Answer by Droyal14u at 10:49 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • That's what he said! She also told him that she talked to her lawyer about it and it wouldn't be contempt lmao!! She's always talking to her imaginary lawyer because it's funny when their divorce was finalized who was there to represent her? Not a damn sole. Her so called lawyer told my fiance's lawyer he wasn't representing her when they tried to contact him about something that had to do with her getting her car out of the divorce.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:46 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • no he didnt agree to that. I honestly think she has mental issues or thinks he is a complete idiot. I think she knows that he will keep it on because he's not going to go without talking to his kids. I told him it was time to cut it off and if she didnt follow the papers get her for contempt.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:49 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • Take her crazy ass back to court already! NO judge will tolerate her crazy way of looking at it and WILL order her to give him the # AND get her own phone on her $

    Answer by vbruno at 10:51 PM on Apr. 14, 2011

  • what a bitch

    Answer by MexTexmom2 at 10:52 PM on Apr. 14, 2011