I really cant re-hash the entire story because it is so long and depressing. But I have four daughters, mine (12), his (11), ours (2and almost1). I consider my "step" daughter to be my daughter just like the other ones. Her father and O have been together since she was five. SD birth mom has launched continuous attcks on me and my children since DH and I got together. The most recent attack involved her accusation of abuse toward my SD and a drastic/rdiculous change in Parenting Plan. She also filed a restraining order against my husband from seeing/contacting his daughter. This all stemmed from an embarrassing but health related issue of my SD not wiping her butt after using the restroom. As I stated, she is 11 and she doesnt wipe her bottom. So much so that we have found underwear with measurable feces and urine crusted all over the crotch of her underwear. We finally decided to take a picture of it to document our continued concern for her health adn her mother's reaction was to file these orders. We have since filed our our declarations stating she is manipulating the truth and has an on going interest in hostile actions towards me. When she got these orders she decided to drop the restraingin order but still wants to mediate for a new PP that would only give my husband partial day visitations outside our home to keep my SD away from me apparently. This is SO unfair to both me and my SD. I just dont know what to do! We cant afford this mediation and if we dont go then she wins. HELP!Answer Question
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