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Now I KNOW I'm not the only one thinking it... adult content

DH has duty tonight (24 hour post)...There's a girl at his work that he talks about a lot...I tried to call him, got no answer, and left a voicemail... Less than a minute later, the chick he talks about from work (who is on my Facebook) posts her status as "Duty Booty! Fun times!!!"

Yeah, someone try to tell me you aren't thinking what I'm thinking...

P.S. I should add I have thought he was having an affair for a while...He hasn't had sex with me in 2 months...Always "works late"...Doesn't answer certain calls or goes outside for them... Etc etc...

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:45 AM on Apr. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I agree, I would think the same thing. Get him to admit it and kick his ass!

    Answer by Kari727 at 9:47 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • .....'I'd go apeshit LOL confront them

    Answer by rhonda111787 at 9:47 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Yeah, I think I'd be asking about it...

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 9:47 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • sorry sweetie! that sounds really bad.
    I would be thinking the same thing. I would contact the girl.

    Answer by jenn4443 at 9:47 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • If they are military and he is having an affair with her REPORT him to his commander! They dont like that shit.

    Answer by vbruno at 9:48 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Wow. Duty booty? Seriously?

    Answer by matobe at 9:48 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Ugh. The military -- especially duty days -- can be so horrible!

    I'm sorry you're going through this, but yes - I would be thinking the exact same thing you are. I would just flat out ask him. Trying to be sneaky and figure things out yourself will just stress you out even more than saying "What the ******!?"

    Answer by enohp04 at 9:48 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Sounds like it's time for a stake out. 


    Answer by luvmygrlz at 9:49 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • would think the same thing. I'm so sorry.

    Answer by mna_823 at 9:49 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Vbruno - yep! Exactly what you said! You just beat me to it! :-)

    Answer by specialwingz at 9:49 AM on Apr. 15, 2011

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