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Why are men so clueless??

Why is it that men feel they need time to breeze and chill out from a hard day's work, but we Stay at home moms don't need it??

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gutterflower585

Asked by gutterflower585 at 7:44 PM on Apr. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I didn't even get to relax after work when I was with my ex... but he had to.... That's why women rule and men drool! lol
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 7:47 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • If you find out the answer let me know.
    jenn4443

    Answer by jenn4443 at 7:50 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Mine does that too! Drives me nuts! lol It's ok though, because he takes the kids out on Sunday pretty much all day :)
    lovingmy4babies

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 7:54 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • I hear ya honey! I have NO idea! I think its cause a lot of men are hardwired to think of the big number one and the big number one only. It just doesnt occur to them that us women need a break too.
    becca2715

    Answer by becca2715 at 8:36 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Because they've never been forced into YOUR shoes. Once they have, their tunes can and will change. Mine's did.
    hopeandglory53

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 9:16 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • They don't just do it to SAHM moms but to us who work also......I suppose its because we act like we can handle it all because we HAVE to handle it all!
    brypmom

    Answer by brypmom at 9:50 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • I agree with jenn4443
    smurfyangel

    Answer by smurfyangel at 10:09 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • they figure its natural for a woman to never feel tired
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 10:21 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • i have no ideal.....plz do tell if u find out
    dezz0922

    Answer by dezz0922 at 6:26 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • This phenomenon is pretty much a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you expect your life partner to do things around the house and with the children, and you make sure both of you are clear on what's expected from each person, the whole "clueless idiot" thing doesn't happen.
    Fistandantalus

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 9:25 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

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