My day started fine....then I started missing my son who is in the AF. So I do what I do and bake and clean :) fun i know. I make dinner, my ds ask if he can go to movies; i remember my dh had mentioned wanting to see Conspirator so I ask if dh would like to see that while ds is seeing his movie (he is 14). Sure. GREAT I have a date then he ask "want to include...." oh heck NO. He must have seen my "look" cuz he says nah we don't need them. So we leave 10 mins before the movie is to begin.....I had been saying for 20 mins we need to go, but his PC game and chatting with the aforementioned party on the phone was more important. Then we finally get in the car and his phone rings and it is the same party AGAIN...."umm we are going to movies,,,yeah true. I'll call ya back" sooo to me "do you really want to c this I mean we are going to be late and they are calling for a big storm" So I snap NO lets just drop ds and his friend off and go HOME. "OK". Now we get home and he sits on the couch for 2 mins YES I LITERALLY TIMED IT! His phone rings "yep Im home. yep Ill play" and he is back on the computer!
Believe me I have talked to him ALOT about putting his brother before me. This is a daily ritual with them UNLESS my sil has something SHE wants to do ALONE with bil or SHE has a family function THEN bil isn't ALLOWED to answer my dh calls! I am so sick of it! I am sick of crying EVERYTIME it happens. I am 45 years old you would think I could handle it but I just feel so freakin rejected! If I didn't have to work I would pack my car and go visit my other ds in TX!
How can I get him to HEAR me without sounding like a whiny teenager?
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