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What sex position works best for you? adult content

I seem to have a hard time having an orgasm...My man is bigger then average but for some reason I struggle.

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Asked by lynnsey13 at 11:47 PM on Apr. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Well right now I'm HUGE pregnant so most positions are pretty uncomfortable lol....Me on my side seems to be the easiest for us....but I don't think positioning is why your not orgasming...I've always heard that it's a mental have to relax and not think about it...just enjoy the sensations

    Answer by Lucky209 at 11:50 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • Hmmm...I believe that because it used to be easier when we first got together but I fake it alot now. I think that's because it was new and exciting.

    Comment by lynnsey13 (original poster) at 11:54 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • I prefer missionary. It's the only way my hip doesn't lock up...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 11:55 PM on Apr. 15, 2011

  • My man is very huge down there, and our favorite position is a variant of doggy-style, with me laying on my belly, legs together, and him entering from behind. It's HEAVENLY.

    Answer by Mousuke at 12:27 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • since im not gettin any right now any position would be good :) my dh job is short staffed, its an institution for mentally disabled, so they have him working 12 hr days 6 days a week, while the money is nice the lack of physical contact sucks :(

    Answer by gothmama91 at 12:39 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • That does suck! Im sorry chica.

    Comment by lynnsey13 (original poster) at 12:41 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • on the knees .. on the edge of the bed, with the rear sticking out

    Answer by alotleft2do at 1:03 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • my man sits in an armchair, and I face away from him, sitting on him and bouncing up and down...

    Answer by goodi2shooz at 1:28 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • I feel you on this one. I haven't had an orgasim in years during sex. When we were first together I had orgaisms all the time now NEVER. I blamed in on the weight gain over the years, but I'm working on that. So far since 2nd baby was born I've lost 32 lbs.

    Answer by Mom1127-0125 at 9:54 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

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