A work friend of mine and I reconnected this past fall. We always talked about life, our friends, relationships, etc. So we caught up and it was innocent at first, I gave him relationship advice, he told me the "truth" about men. Then he joked that we should run away together; I joked that we should let our SO's have each other so we wouldn't have to run away. It was still fairly innocent for a few weeks then the texts became "missed you today." ..."can't wait to see you again..." "I wanted to take you to my car...pull your hair"..."NEED to be w/you" then we began referring to our SO's as him and her, the warden, the ball & chain.
After several months pictures were exchanged...naughty pictures
When I felt guilty for being intimate w/DH (b/c it felt like I was cheating on my DWH), I knew it had to stop. I was one step away from calling out the wrong name and wrecking my own home.
Now, I'm pregnant. I know that I should end this but it's so hard. I don't want to be w/the other guy..I just enjoy our trysts. I haven't told him and I don't know how to or if I should? I am bound to run into him at the central office and I don't want him thinking I'm carrying his child once it starts buzzing that I'm pregnant.
I am 3 months pregnant and the affair has been physical for just under 2 months so it is NOT his (and we've been very careful).
How should I tell him (in person, on phone or text...)
Should I tell him?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:01 AM on Apr. 16, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by amberpaiz at 2:20 AM on Apr. 16, 2011