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Does anyone else feel stupid when... adult content

their husbands ask them to talk dirty during sex? I feel so stupid when we are having sex and my DD asks me to talk dirty to him. I have no idea what to say. Does anyone else have this problem?


Asked by Anonymous at 10:06 AM on Apr. 16, 2011 in Relationships

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  • my SO wants it too, but i mean, there is only so much you can i feel like a dumbass. the only time i'm 'good' at it is when i've had a lil to drink, lol.

    Answer by kyuteangl88 at 3:22 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • "ooh, baby..the trash needs taken out"

    Answer by shay1130 at 10:08 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • i used to but deployment kinda fixed that for us. when we cant see each other only talk dirty on the phone. when hes home i do feel kinda silly doing it- but sometimes u just gotta get in there and do it! throw on a pair of heels and get a whip and tell him what a dirty boy he is and spank his ass!

    Answer by sandraberke at 10:07 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • HAHAHAHA thats a good one

    Answer by kylansmommy09 at 10:14 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • LMAO Shay! I would totally do that if my other half ever wanted that

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 10:12 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • on a real note ex used to do that to me. he would tell me i wasnt "vocal" enough. i guess he wanted me to make him feel like he was doing a great job. just throw in some "ooh, ahhs, and yeah, baby..thats the spot." maybe that will make him happy. My dh ..he don't care about me being vocal, i only get like that during an orgasm

    Answer by shay1130 at 10:19 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • I am totally with you! I feel so stupid! but when i look at him hes lovin it!
    I try to be more vocal but idk what to say!

    Answer by Jayseeka at 10:28 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • The problem was reversed in this home. He would never do it for me. Have fun with it and talk over examples with him sometime when you are not having sex. Put in the effort. It will mean so much.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:21 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • Lol yes. I'm not very good at it either haha

    Answer by amberdawnbarr at 10:30 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • lol we dso it all the time. It does nothing for me, but it drives hhim crazy..Buy a book of dirty phrases lol

    Answer by MexTexmom2 at 10:53 AM on Apr. 16, 2011

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