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Should I have a shower?

I have a DD that will be 6 in Dec. and this baby girl is due in Sept. Is it right to have a shower if you are having the same sex? I kept most big items but do still need a monitor, swing and little stuff like bath tub and some clothes. I have gotten rid of alot of her clothes. I have friends asking me if i am having one and I have two friends wanting to give me one. Is it right, though?

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Asked by saysmom at 4:46 PM on Apr. 16, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • Its fine to have another shower I think. You dont always have everything from the first and there's always new things you will need.

    Answer by vbruno at 4:47 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • It's your baby!  If it feels right to you then yes, it's right.  There isn't any wrong or right here, just opinions.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 4:47 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • IMO, no. But that's up to you and whoever wants to throw it for you. You chose to have a second... You get to buy the things you want/ need for it...

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:47 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • I never really understood why some people think that having more then one is a big deal. I think it is fine!!

    Answer by VBM7287 at 4:54 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • Its fine to have a shower.

    Answer by AngieAng12 at 5:07 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • i think it is perfectly fine since your girls are so far apart in age! Let your friends have one for you have fun with it!!

    Answer by mommie_of02 at 5:26 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • I am used to people having a baby shower for each new baby. And anyways, I'm sure you could always use more diapers and wipes, right? :)

    Answer by shakleegirl at 5:29 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • i think that every baby deserves to be celebrated so each child deserves a shower.

    Answer by truealaskanmom at 6:24 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

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