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When you go to the hospital or doctor can they tell if you had sex

or does the sperm get lost in all the discharge?


Asked by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Apr. 16, 2011 in Pregnancy

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Answers (7)
  • Can a doctor tell during your pelvic exam if you've had sex?
    "Most of the time, a doctor will not be able to tell if a girl has had sex just from a pelvic exam. But you should let your doctor know if you've had sex anyway."

    Read the rest there.


    Answer by musicmom08 at 6:38 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • I am in no way trying to sound rude but if you're pregnant it's kind of a no brainer

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:25 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • They probably can,but they don't care.

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:28 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • They can tell if you had sex recently by the state of your vaginal tissue.


    Answer by leksismommy at 6:30 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • i don't see how it's a no brainer or i wouldn't have asked. sooooo could you explain? I am very pregnant and have to have weekly vaginal exams and i would like to makes me feel weird if they can tell

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:28 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • I don't get it. You are very pregnant. You are sexually active. And you want to know if your doctor can tell you are sexually active? You are pregnant... I think they assume you've had sex. But if you are asking if they can actually see the sperm/ejaculate during a pelvic exam and know this is what it is (versus cervical mucus), then no... and even if they could tell somehow (which I don't think is possible), who cares? People have sex. Even pregnant people.

    Answer by MomX3ThatsMe at 6:56 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

  • yeah well i didn't want anyone's advice on if i should have a weird quark about my doctor knowing i just had sex, but thanks for the answers!

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:01 PM on Apr. 16, 2011

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