Introduce a bedtime friend if she doesn't already have one...and just take the pacifier away. Tell her she doesn't need it any more and take it. The first few naps and bedtimes will be rough, but better to get it all over with at once than draw it out and prolong it by "weaning". (we took my oldest son's at 13 months, the third day he went right to sleep with no trouble)
There are also suggestions like clipping the end off so it doesn't work, clipping more off each day until it's gone, the "pacifier fairy" taking them, putting them in a box so they are sent to "someone else who needs them", "give" them to another baby in the family to use.......
at 5:21 AM on Dec. 2, 2008