I recently started dating a 28 year old man. He has 3 children from a previous relationship. He dated a 20 year old girl a few months ago and she cheated on him and caused nothing but drama, so he broke up with her. Told her he didnt want anything to do with her drama anymore. she continues to call him and beg for him to take her back. He isnt interested, he ignores her calls and all he wants is to be with me.
So last week she calls him and tells him she is pregnant. They talked and they both decided it was best for her to have an abortion. She told him she was scheduling it for Wed. On Thursday he called her and she told him she went through with it and its all done. So today Sunday she shows up at his house and tells him she is still pregnant and she is going to have the baby and she wants nothing to do with him and she doesnt want him in the baby's life.
He keeps trying to talk to her and have a conversation with her about this matter but she keeps playing games and being difficult.
What the hell is wrong with this girl!?!??!
Is there anyone else that agrees with my theory that she is playing games and just trying to mess with his head?? I think she is lying and she is not pregnant.
I really like this man and we have something special... this is a little too much drama for me so I am not quite sure what I should do at this point. Part of me wants to keep dating him because I feel like this girl is a psycho and just wants to have him on a leash, and part of me thinks that perhaps I should just end it with him and wait for him to settle things with this crazy girl.
Any Advice is GREATLY appreciated!!
Asked by Anonymous at 8:52 PM on Apr. 17, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 8:54 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by dullscissors at 8:56 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by texasgurl33 at 8:56 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
I think she is playing him and he is falling for it. Now because of the MAYBE pregnancy she has him chasing her which sounds to me like was her intention to start with. I agree with JulieJacobKyle, I'd take a break until he sorts it out.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 8:56 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by Nanixh at 8:56 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by meooma at 8:57 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by Chloesmom1126 at 8:59 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by pixie_trix at 9:03 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
Answer by twinsplus2more at 9:04 PM on Apr. 17, 2011
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