I was wondering, what's everyone's view on how soon is too soon to get married ? Dr. Phil said you shouldn't get married until you experienced all 4 seasons together & experienced each other at one of their worst moments in life .... when you have the flu! lol But some of the couples I know that are extremely happy & have been together for over 20s years have got married within the 1st year they met. I was with my ex for 6 years. Come to find out, I didn't really know the real him until we split up. He showed his true colors then. So how long does it take to really get to know someone ? Do you ever really know someone ?
Just curious as to whats everyone's opinions are.
I used to swear up and down that I wouldn't get engaged to a man I had known for less then a year. Imagine my surprise when I got engaged to a man I had only known for 6 months (now been married 4 years and counting).
I think a lot has to do with what your position in life is. I had dated enough and made enough mistakes to know exactly what I needed in a husband, not just what I wanted. It didn't take too long to figure out that this guy had the attributes I needed to make a successful marriage.
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