ok if you want to bash you can keep it moving sorry i dont want to hear it.
So i was dating a guy (well call him bobby) during the summer of 06, he was a good guy and we didnt have any problems it was just the wrong time for both us to be getting into a new relationship. we both had just broke up with other people and i was going on vacation for awhile so we decided it was better if we werent together. anyways we pretty much just ended it before i left and we were on good terms and very rarely saw each other once i got back. (we did sleep together a few times. ALWAYS with protection) anyways when i got home i got back together with the ex before bobby we ended up having a beautiful little girl in september of 07 and we now have a son and a life together.
well a few weeks ago bobby got in contact with me after yrs and we started catching up. i guess he saw pictures of my daughter and was like oh shes beautiful she looks just like me and he was going on and on about how his family thinks she looks just like him and nothing like her dad. well i tried explaining it to him theres no way she s his and he should be happy. i mean what man wants more kids to take care of. if im telling you shes not yours why cant he believe me? im not that kind of person i would never pass her off as someone elses kid. anyways he started talking about a dna test and all of this. he has one son and he has another on the way. i asked him seriously why he wanted another kid and all he could tell me was that she was just so beautiful who wouldnt want her to be theres. and i asked him how many kids he tells people he has and he says he tells them he has one by me and 2 up where he lives. why would he do this? i told him all hes doing is creating problems for me and i dont know how to make him understand shes not his. i can do a dna test and get it over with but he lives in a different state and i dont want to upset my bf. both of my children look just like me. anyways i guess theres no real question i just wanted to get that off my chest. im extremely aggrivated by this and dont really know where to go. thanks for listening.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:14 AM on Apr. 18, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by christinahenry at 12:15 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 1:04 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by dmr73059 at 1:30 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Your children may look like you but they could be from two different daddies. I'd have the dna test done just to rule him out and get that craziness off your shoulders. Good luck. :)
Answer by Droyal14u at 4:21 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by rio_burb at 7:59 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by Mom1127-0125 at 9:22 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by gypsymama532 at 10:37 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by Kari727 at 10:39 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by mrsziemann at 4:00 PM on Apr. 18, 2011