When my SO and I got together- he told me he was still friends w/ a few ex girlfriends, and that they were totally platonic friendshis (he's 32 btw), but that he's not the type of guy to cut off friendships (even w/ ex's) for a new gf...I said, fine- I understand...
Flash forward to now; we've been together over a year, our dd is almost 3 (he didn't know about her until she was almost two, LONG story), and we're totally in love- BUT I still get incredibly jealous over stupid things, like his friends that are girls...
It's nothing major, he's NOT scandalous in any way, and I'm even friends with one of them now-- but then I'll see things on facebook, where he or one of them (an ex or someone he once had casual sex w/, but is still friends w/) commented on something "just to say hi"...and it irritates me that he maintains contact, even if it's not often. Oh, mind you, all these women are GORGEOUS...
So is this just me being real insecure??? Or should I care??
Asked by Anonymous at 1:17 AM on Apr. 18, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by vbruno at 9:09 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by scottshoney at 1:27 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
That would be a big no no in my house. I wouldn't care what was said a year ago, if I had a problem with it I'd be telling my husband. Your no longer just a "new" girlfriend and in my opinion to not be put absolutely first would be enough to make anyone jealous.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 1:27 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by acastle2 at 1:29 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by CrazyMommy87 at 9:06 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by Mom1127-0125 at 9:10 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by knicole0708 at 9:12 AM on Apr. 18, 2011
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