My grandma is a very rude woman to be honest. She hates men altogether. No man is a good one. The only time she really likes a man is when they do something for her like my SO helped fix her printer one day. She's always said he's a good guy, but still makes rude comments about him. I've never really got a long with her besides when I was young like 6 & down. We always butt heads & I can't take her comments anymore. No matter if I say something nice to her about how I don't appreciate the comments or if I get mean about it. She doesn't know any limits. She thinks she has a right to say anything about anyone. My SO is covered in tats & has long hair. He also isn't white which she's made a comment to me about as well. She always super nice to his face, but says these things when he's not around. Its to the point that I'm wanting to cut her out of my life, BUT my son is super close to her. I was raised that if you disrespect my SO, you are disrespecting me. My dad doesn't interact with his side of the family bc they always disrespected my mom. Blood doesn't mean shit to me. I know for a fact he wouldn't let his family do that to me. I've done almost everything I know of. I've sat down & had discussions with her about it and I've blew up on her about it. Nothing makes a difference. He truly is a good guy. He's the best guy I've ever been with. He's best the out of the guys my sister & I have ever been with. She still makes rude comments about my dad & my dad has been w my mom for 20+ I'm at a loss here.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:22 PM on Apr. 18, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by yesmaam at 1:05 PM on Apr. 18, 2011
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Answer by TeresaM35 at 12:49 PM on Apr. 18, 2011
Gotta love Grandma, LOL. I would tell SO (and myself) to not take anything she says that is negative personally.Some people just have crappy personalities like that.All kinds of people make the world go round. I know it must be frustrating and irritating.As long as YOU know you have an aesome guy..thats all that matters.I say, love grandma anyway...sounds like your son does..and I wouldnt wamt to take that away from him.Good Luck mama.
Answer by kimberlyinberea at 12:56 PM on Apr. 18, 2011
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