My son got married last Sept. There was a minor incident at the wedding that upset the bride. She blames him but it was out of his control. On the honeymoon she announces she doesn't want his children tho she knows he is ready to be a father. Then she cheats on him.
Through all this my son has tried to be patient and loving as she has some emotional issues. Finally he decided to file for divorce when he could not take any more. Then she announced she was pregnant. I questioned who the father was and I am sure that has gone through my son's mind too. But he is so blindly in love with this woman that he took her back and is now trying to build a life with her.
She has hurt him, humiliated him, driven him to an emotional breakdown, threatened suicide and much more besides.
I cannot be rational. I don't know what to tell him. I am VERY upset. I do not like her at all and I do not trust her an inch! Ideas and suggestions all welcome as I do not want to become a grandmother under these circumstances!
My husband and I will not be a part of the child's life - she has made that abundantly clear!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:49 PM on Apr. 18, 2011 in Adult Children (18+)
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