So i have a friend that is not sure of his sexuality. He is in his 25 years old, he has never kissed anyonel, never had a GF, he has no experience with ANYTHING. He has a tough childhood, his father was an alcoholic, he was molested when he was kid, he was bullied and his mom is a fanatic religious person. So, she is very close minded about people being gay, bi, sex-before marriage and all that stuff. Therefore, she doesn't know what is wrong with his son. i know this guy friend since we were in HS together, he currently lives out of state (going to school). I've always seen him as a friend, until before he left to school, we started to do everything together, we would see each other everyday, talked to each other everyday. we opened up to each other. We became best friends. We even spend thxgiving and xmas together, just like a couple. He tells me he loves me very often. But he is not sure of his sexuality. He says he is attracted to guys, but also with girls. Can this be because he doesn't have any experience? The point is that i am in love with him. He tells me he doesn't want to be gay or be attracted to men, but he has such a low self -esteem. He is very good looking guy an a lot of girls like him (makes me jealous) but, he won't date them, or pursue anything cause he is scared of hurting them, and he won't open up to them. I was the 1st one to really know about his attraction. I've accepted him and i am trying to help him. However, he is so confused right now, i am scared to tell him that i accept him and that i love him. And that him being attracted to guys is not an issue for me. But i am scared to confuse him even more, as he won't take it in very well. I hate seeing him get hurt and me not being able to help him. But i love him so much all i want is to be with him, i want to be his 1st kiss. should i tell him? should i continue being his friend? I don't know what to do...i need help!Answer Question
Answer by MyLilClaireBear at 6:13 PM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by Liz4Life at 7:54 PM on Apr. 18, 2011
Answer by Liz4Life at 7:57 PM on Apr. 18, 2011
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