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How to deal with my ex-husbands abusive wife towards my 9 year old daughter and my self

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BrendaC.

Asked by BrendaC. at 7:33 PM on Apr. 18, 2011 in Parenting Debate

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Answers (13)
  • switch to supervised visitation as quickly as humanly possible?
    hibbingmom

    Answer by hibbingmom at 7:34 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • How is she abusive? Can you explain a little more? It would help us be able to answer you better if we had a bit more detail.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 7:35 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • I agree with samurai
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 7:37 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Stay away from her
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:37 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Okay, more detail,, in what way? We can answer better if you site examples..
    kimigogo

    Answer by kimigogo at 7:40 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • i have a friend in pretty much the same situation. I say the father shouldn't get visitation if he can't stand up to his crazy, mean, hateful wife.
    ItsJustMe1017

    Answer by ItsJustMe1017 at 8:32 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Get proof of the abuse and get her ass arrested!!!
    minimo77

    Answer by minimo77 at 8:34 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Take your DD to child protective services and have her tell them what is happening. They will handle it from there. Do it asap before she goes over to dad's house again, at that point they will probably give you something in writing telling you not to send her over there until the situation is handled
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 8:44 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Is the ex aware of this. Is he doing anything?
    Kitkat61277

    Answer by Kitkat61277 at 12:24 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • I would get in in writing that abuse occured, CPS, photos, testimony from your daughter, then beat the living shit out of her and let her know how it feels to her no matter what kind of abuse it is ITS still abuse!
    SMITxsM2

    Answer by SMITxsM2 at 2:13 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

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