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How to deal with my ex-husbands abusive wife towards my 9 year old daughter and my self

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Asked by BrendaC. at 7:33 PM on Apr. 18, 2011 in Parenting Debate

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  • switch to supervised visitation as quickly as humanly possible?

    Answer by hibbingmom at 7:34 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • How is she abusive? Can you explain a little more? It would help us be able to answer you better if we had a bit more detail.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 7:35 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • I agree with samurai

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 7:37 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Stay away from her

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:37 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Okay, more detail,, in what way? We can answer better if you site examples..

    Answer by kimigogo at 7:40 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • i have a friend in pretty much the same situation. I say the father shouldn't get visitation if he can't stand up to his crazy, mean, hateful wife.

    Answer by ItsJustMe1017 at 8:32 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Get proof of the abuse and get her ass arrested!!!

    Answer by minimo77 at 8:34 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Take your DD to child protective services and have her tell them what is happening. They will handle it from there. Do it asap before she goes over to dad's house again, at that point they will probably give you something in writing telling you not to send her over there until the situation is handled

    Answer by JLS2388 at 8:44 PM on Apr. 18, 2011

  • Is the ex aware of this. Is he doing anything?

    Answer by Kitkat61277 at 12:24 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • I would get in in writing that abuse occured, CPS, photos, testimony from your daughter, then beat the living shit out of her and let her know how it feels to her no matter what kind of abuse it is ITS still abuse!

    Answer by SMITxsM2 at 2:13 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

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