Sorry if this is TMI but here's a little history so you understand my situation better. I used to be able to orgasm every single time I had sex with my DH, but I had to have clitoral stimulation to do so. I completely lost my sex drive a couple weeks into my pregnancy and did not regain it until nearly a year after I had my DS. I tore in two places during my labor, on either side of my urethra and I had a verrrry painful infection for a few weeks afterwards that made my clitoris ache every time i had to pee. Since then, i have had little to NO sensation in my clitoris, even when i'm turned on. I mentioned this to my OB (a man) and he didn't seem to think it was unusual or an issue since i have some scarring around that area. However, you would think that after an entire year of healing, I would have regained SOME sensation. Now, I can't get off at all and it's starting to make sex something I dread and only do to keep our love life alive. I have had DH go down on me, finger me, do all kinds of foreplay for 2+ hours before even attempting intercourse and STILL, no luck. Has anyone else experienced this? Does anyone have any suggestions or advice? I'm at the point where I just want to cry everytime I get horny because I can't do anything about it! I have tried pleasuring myself all sorts of ways and I just can't get the O I long for....i'm going CRAZY!!!!
Answer by flipper4u21 at 4:57 AM on Apr. 19, 2011
Answer by SissyAnn141 at 3:38 AM on Apr. 19, 2011
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Answer by flipper4u21 at 8:48 AM on Apr. 19, 2011