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I don't want to sound jealous

My hubby comes home and tells me about this girl he works with every day. He can talk and joke with her at work all day, I don't really care. I'm just tired of hearing about it!! Is there any way I can tell him I don't want to hear about her without sounding jealous? Or should I just suck it up? I mean he works so much and I'm at home all day so I know he's just trying to share his day with me...


Asked by Nicoles2LilRams at 10:20 AM on Apr. 19, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • I would just leave it. or ask to meet her, set up a group activity and go out and have fun.. maybe she might end up being your friend too and you won't mind hearing about her?

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 10:22 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • i agree with meeting her.... she could become a family friend

    Answer by NaiveDream at 10:24 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • you can either be honest or change the subject.

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 10:22 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • I didn't even think about meeting her lol but that sounds like great advice!

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 10:30 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • Yes ladies I have been thinking about meeting her too. He keeps saying that I would like her but he says that about everyone lol.

    Comment by Nicoles2LilRams (original poster) at 10:43 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • Ask her and her S/O over for dinner, honestly I think it is a good sign he talks about her,, I would be much more worried, if he was sneakinIg off and taking odd phone calls etc.. my husband had a secratary in his office, he goes on and on about her,, she is really cool,,I jokingly call her his "work wife" LOL

    Answer by kimigogo at 10:45 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • i wouldnt worry..that all he has to talk about if he works a lot. i'm sure he is just sharing his day with you. i would not invite her over unless she is married because then i think that would be them seeing a little too much of each other and she would be able to intrude on your home life.

    Answer by shay1130 at 10:56 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • know pretend to be best pals with you all so she could score info on him.

    Answer by shay1130 at 10:57 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • I agree that you should meet her. She may turn out to be a good friend.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:06 AM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • I agree, meet her :D My husband has like one women he works with (at least one that he talks about), and I told him next time we do something, he had better invite her over. I met her, and we're now FB friends, and we chat and stuff. Obviously not as much as her and hub, but yeah. She's a really nice gal.

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 11:16 AM on Apr. 19, 2011