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How can you tell if he's into you?

If you're into a guy, how can you tell the feelings mutual without asking?

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knicole0708

Asked by knicole0708 at 5:28 PM on Apr. 19, 2011 in Relationships

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  • There is a certain vibe, a look, a feeling, you just to look for it.
    older

    Answer by older at 5:29 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • if they go out of their way to try to make plans or visit you
    angevil53

    Answer by angevil53 at 5:29 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • you can usually tell by the amount of eye contact he gives you
    alycia_21

    Answer by alycia_21 at 5:30 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • Unless you can read minds, you can only guess as to his feelings. Even if you get the vibe that he doesnt like you, he might really just be playing hard to get. Or if you get the vibe that he does like you, he might just be flirting. Honestly, you really can't know unless you ask, and even then the answers are sometimes confusing!
    an-apple-a-day

    Answer by an-apple-a-day at 5:30 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • If he wants to take you to places you want to go, to see things you want to see, and be with the people you want to be with. Also, if he's interested in knowing all about you, where you came from, what it is that makes you just you yourself, what you want to do with your life. In other words, if he gives every appearance of being more interested in you than he is in himself, then I would think he might be interested. If he's more about what you do for him or what he can get you to do for him, then he's probably pretty much just into himself and not worth your time.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 5:31 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • Body language. And in my experience me and the SO always joked and were very playful with each others words.
    wendydays

    Answer by wendydays at 5:32 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • You don't have to guess when someone's into you. It's like having affection POURED over you! They love looking at you and touching you and telling you they think you're great. When a guy is really into you, you just go, Wow, where'd this come from??
    Adelicious

    Answer by Adelicious at 5:37 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • If it's too early for that, the only thing you can do is give it time until he makes it known. It seems like it takes FOREVER sometimes, but it's worth it if it's a good guy!
    Adelicious

    Answer by Adelicious at 5:39 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • how he looks at you. how he teats you in front of his friends and family. I can usually feel it. If you dont then run as fast as you can! THere are so many out there!
    christinawillis

    Answer by christinawillis at 5:42 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • Oh baby, read him, watch him, observe him. If i's there it's there, you can feel it, sense it.. Women have that intuition about em... At least I did anywhos... Good luck!
    TexasMama2Boys

    Answer by TexasMama2Boys at 11:15 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

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