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Im in overdrive!!!! adult content

I have a really high sex drive, and its hard to get my hubby to keep up...what the hell??!!

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Asked by Dream9703 at 6:32 PM on Apr. 19, 2011 in Relationships

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  • BTDT.

    I don't have a solution, though, except to talk talk talk!

    Answer by Ati_13 at 6:38 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • perimenopause?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:41 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • LOL Butterflyblue19

    I was going to ask that too.. The only good thing perimenopause has brought with it so far (for me) has been a high sex drive...

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:48 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • put some viagra in his food? j/p don't do that.... condoms make men last longer usually....

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:49 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • u can buy cream that will numb him a bit making it harder for him to cum plus u can do other thing besides intercourse use ur imagination

    Answer by rhonda111787 at 6:54 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • I think she means her husband doesn't want sex as often as she does by "keep up" not that he can't get an erection lol.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 7:03 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • only 29, not menopause. And he has no problems gettin it up or lasting, hes great in bed...but hes doesnt want it all the time like I do. I mean I want it ALL the time and most of the time he just wants it once or twice a week.

    Comment by Dream9703 (original poster) at 7:13 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • It's normal for women to being their sexual peak at 30.. I'm turning 26 in a few days and I've been hinting towards my huz about what may or may not happen when I start peaking... Luckily, we have a very healthy relationship and sexlife soooo yay us!

    Answer by TexasMama2Boys at 11:10 PM on Apr. 19, 2011

  • Yeah, my husbands couldn't keep up either, but I just use SELF LOVE as often as necessary!

    Answer by Droyal14u at 3:16 AM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Start feeding him meals heavy on the Omega3 and Omega6 fatty acids, zinc, magnesium, arginine, choline, inositol, calcium and all B vitamins and cut his salt and caffiene intake.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:44 AM on Apr. 20, 2011

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