ok so me and my boyfriend got into a big fight, he hit me but not hard and not enough to hurt me. but i was pissed! and called the cops i was already crying and mad cos the argument i think the tears made everything ting 100times worse then it actually was. he was arrested, and the state picked up the charges. we have talked through things and have been having sex and everything, we have a 3month old daughter andwant to work things out. not just for her but because we do love eachother things just got outta hand. ANYWAYS today was court stupid didnt talk to his lawyer before court in person and the lawyer just requested trial which we didnt want we just wanted to end this as quickly as possible without him getting jail time. the charges are domestic battery MA. which i think the MA is because the baby was in the house while we were arguing. any advice on how to end this so everything works out we have a state issued restraining order that is some bullshit! we ignore it but theres always the fear he will get caught over here and they will arrest him. we both want to be with eachother please help.Answer Question
Answer by June_Mama09 at 7:23 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
You can talk to his lawyer, but do to all the murders from domestic violence and the fact that your child was there you can not have this dropped and you can both be arrested for violating the restraining order and you can have cps called on you for child endangerment because of it. This is in the courts hands now.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:25 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
You can not because of what the charges are the victim can not have them dropped. There is very good reason for it too.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:27 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
Answer by older at 7:29 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
, "cos hes never hit me before unless i was going crazy on him."
OP just for clarification before I actually answer.. Has he hit you more than once during this relationship?
Answer by pixie_trix at 7:29 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
Answer by June_Mama09 at 7:29 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
Answer by meooma at 7:29 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
Answer by Nanixh at 7:32 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 7:47 PM on Apr. 19, 2011
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