My daughter is 5 1/2 and she barely knows her paternal grandmother. The woman has NEVER asked to see her, has never showed any interest in her at all! She has 2 other grandkids that she's has always babysat for or just wanted to have them for the day or overnight cuz she missed them! But has never barely payed any attention to my daughter. We all live in the same city, 7 miles away! The last time my daughter saw her was probably 5-6 months ago, and my daughter refered to her as (while speaking to her father) "that lady, ur step mom"!
SO I decided that we will refer to her by her name from now on, and my daughter is not going to call her "grandma"! I just dont feel like that woman deserves for my daughter to call her that, nor does she deserve that title when she has NEVER been any kind of grandma to my daughter, nor has she been anything to her! Not even a babysitter!
Is this wrong of me? I'm totally open to hearing all opinions on the matter.
Answer by wheresthewayout at 1:33 AM on Apr. 20, 2011
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