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Is it cheating?

I recently noticed that my husband has been spending time daily going through the personal ads in different cities throughout the country on Craigslist, I approached him about it, and he said that he is doing this for laughs- but the only ones he looks at are the girls seeking men- with pictures how would you take it if your husband was doing these things?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:46 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (18)
  • I wouldn't say it was cheating but I would stop it now as it is the beginning of a fast downward spiral especially if he just started doing it.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:49 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I'd think that he was ABOUT to cheat

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:49 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I don't consider it cheating if he's just looking. People post graphic pics on there so it is a cheap easy way to look at some nudy pics. I wouldn't like it at all if my husband was doing it but I wouldnt consider it cheating.

    Answer by RentaMom at 3:49 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Ask him if it would be okay with him if you were doing that..
    and agree with butterflyblue19

    Answer by bizima4 at 3:50 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • sounds like he is about to cheat to me

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 3:53 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • The "about to cheat" ideas are good ones. I've used Craigslist for that purpose. (don't judge me)

    Answer by RentaMom at 3:55 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I would rip him a new one. I would also get a spy on my computer so that i can record everything he types & all the websites that he's been to. With those computer spies, you can read EVERYTHING they do.....he would have to contact one for you to say he is cheating. Well...catch him contacting one first....

    You can also get them for cell phones...

    Answer by samurai_chica at 3:56 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I wouldn't think that this is cheating. But, of course, I've recently found out that some things that I never considered cheating are normally considered as such, so....I don't know.

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 4:08 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I look through those too! They are hysterical! I read them all because they are serious train wrecks. So I would be suspicious, but don't jump to conclusions.

    Answer by Saya at 4:13 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I wouldn't consider it cheating but I would talk to him and let him know I don't like it and there is no need for him to be looking at that stuff.

    Answer by Avon_Girlie at 4:14 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

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