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Would you propose to a man?

Why or why not?

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Asked by mamaofficer at 3:59 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • never. im too old fashioned i guess.

    Answer by tnm786 at 3:59 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • No way! Old fashioned and its a mans job IMO.


    Answer by amazinggrace83 at 4:01 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • At this moment, no. He's being an ass, and frankly, I don't even want to speak to him.

    Under other circumstances...I don't know. I suppose maybe I would, but I don't know how or why I'd do it. I'd really prefer the man do it.

    Answer by wendythewriter at 4:01 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Yep, and I'm starting to think I'm the only one here who would lol. I asked "How did YOU propose?" the other day on here and no one answered lol. I did propose to my SO, he said "yes," we got married, etc. I don't see the big deal. Plus it takes some pressure off of him. He doesn't have to stress about spending money on a ring, finding the "perfect" ring, think up how to propose and when, etc.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 4:02 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • NO,, maybe I will the next time, lol,, I just kind of wanted it to be his idea,, but have no problem if someone wants to!

    Answer by kimigogo at 4:04 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Sure ... I don't see a problem with it.

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 4:19 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • it really depends... but if i really loved him yes i would.

    Answer by Lynnsae at 4:24 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I would. Actually, I think I did propose first with my now husband. He said yes and then went and bought my ring and asked

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 4:25 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • This the twenty first century and things have changed, what used to be a man's job is now a woman's job too. So I don't think that it matters who proposes. I haven't found the right man yet.

    Answer by stitchintime at 10:12 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • In this day and age why not. All he can do is say no.

    Answer by stitchintime at 11:53 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

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