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How long will you stay with a man that has not propose to u?

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mamaofficer

Asked by mamaofficer at 4:03 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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  • if its more than 2 years, I think he probly has some issues with permanant commitment. I would only go up to 2 years.
    But thats my opinion.
    mrs.keen

    Answer by mrs.keen at 4:05 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • If he hasnt figured it out after about 2-3 yrs (tops) then it's time to stop wasting your time & move on.
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:06 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • 2 years tops
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:06 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • i agree with the girls who said 2 years... i think if your with them and even living together after 2 years and the thought hasn't even crossed his mind it's most likely not going to happen... unless you propose to him...
    Lynnsae

    Answer by Lynnsae at 4:08 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • If the relationship was great in every other way?? forever..
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 4:09 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Depends on what I want out of it,, am I a happy? Is he good? I would stay in a great relationship forever without being married, I think a relationship is way more important than a ring,, now that being said, I would have all our life insurance and all that other stuff worked out.
    kimigogo

    Answer by kimigogo at 4:10 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I totally read that question wrong so i deleted my first answer. Sorry.

    I got tired of waiting so i went and bought myself a wedding ring and started planning a wedding. We'd been together since highschool so it's not like it wasn't going to happen sooner or later.
    UpSheRises

    Answer by UpSheRises at 4:10 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Every man I know says if he doesn't propose by 2 years, he never will.
    Liamsmom09

    Answer by Liamsmom09 at 4:10 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Until I'm not happy with being with him anymore.

    DH and I were together over 3 years before he proposed...we've now been married going on 14 years. So if I would have said "heck with it" after 2 years, I wouldn't be happily married now and the mommy of my wonderful daughter.
    AllAboutKeeley

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 4:11 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Oh and if you don't get married with in 2 years of that proposal don't count on getting married. So I would say 2 years.
    Liamsmom09

    Answer by Liamsmom09 at 4:11 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

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