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Awkward anniversary.... what 2 do? adult content

today marks 1 year to the day since my husband and I had sex. We're going to dinner and then to see "Rio" with the kids. He has no clue it's been a year or that I've been keeping track. Most sex discussions end in drama/fights.... do I keep them peace or mention it? I hate to ruin a nice night.... ugh.

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:57 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I would just kind of mention it, smile and move on!

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 4:58 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • If anything I would think it would turn him on lol

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 5:00 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Confused...
    do you mean its been a year SINCE you've had sex,or 1 year ago was the 1st time you had sex??

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:02 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Could he be having an issue with impotency?

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 5:09 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I guess you keep a good calendar, I wouldn't mention it at all,,,,men just don't think stuff like that is important to keep track of, get worried when he forgets your birthday!

    Answer by kimigogo at 5:09 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I thought about this do you mean you haven't had sex in a year??? I wouldn't bring it up tonight, but I would bring up counseling in the near future,, many times impotent men are embarrased,,

    Answer by kimigogo at 5:17 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • time to slip him some viagra...

    Answer by samurai_chica at 5:59 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • 1 year since you first had sex or 1 year since you had sex?

    Answer by AmandaMichele at 6:35 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I wouldn't ruin the night, just go have dinner and enjoy the movie, then after wards maybe mention it, if an opportunity presents it self. He could have an issue with impotency and he is afraid to talk about it. Also you can try to feed him garlic/onions, grapes/raisins, or tropical fruit. If none of that works then you might want to try to get him to go to the doctor, there could be some thing physically wrong with him. :)

    Answer by stitchintime at 10:03 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

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