I have known "Betty" since we were in the 6th grade. Our birthdays are a day apart and every year up until we were 20, celebrated our b-days together. She also lived 2 blocks away from me and were together always. I got pregnant when I was 21 and slowly stopped hanging out, since I couldn't party any more. We basically lost contact with each other, but our moms still talk to each other and another weird thing is Betty's little sister is in my little sister's wedding. Anyway, about a year ago, I gathered up the courage to friend request her, and I was denied. So I wrote her. No reply. I wrote to her asking what happened to us and how much I miss her. No reply. I write her again and say if there is anything I did, I am truely sorry. No reply. a few months go by and I write to her again asking what did I do! She replies with this, " Quit writing me! You're weird..Get over it!" I am just so shocked at how insensitive she is acting! And one of the main reasons I was trying to reach out to her is because she has a baby now, raising it on her own. I am really heart broken that she wants nothing to do with me and we were best friends. I don't want to give up, but am I just wasting my time?
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:54 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Honestly after the first message didn't get replied to, I would have let it go. Obviously she doesn't feel the way you do and that's okay, she doesn't have to. You feel the way you do and tried to do something about it but it didn't work. She told you how she felt and to be honest, I'd just let it go.
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