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Would you let your 12 year old son "date" a 13 year girl that has already had sex?

I'm freaking out. I use the word date loosely too.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Teens (13-17)

Answers (28)
  • NO!

    Answer by blisteredrower at 7:14 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • NO.

    Answer by cdecker83 at 7:15 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Oh, wow. Um. Probably not just for the fact that boys that age may not be able to say no! its like hard wired into em lol and seeing as she has already done the deed.. shes just goona be a bad influence on him. Good luck!

    Answer by AdrianzMommie at 7:15 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • not in my book my question is y on earth is she already having sex when shes only 13

    Answer by goobersmom713 at 7:15 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • No! But in all honesty I agree with my mother who is sitting right here saying she wouldn't let her 12 year old date anybody.

    Answer by mommastewart81 at 7:15 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Tough one.. I would definitely not, but if you put your foot down to hard, might make him rebel.. Good luck!

    Answer by gutterflower585 at 7:16 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I dated a boy when I was 11 and lost my "V" at 14 so umm NO my kids wouldnt just cause I know what happens

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:17 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • My daughter will not be dating anyone at 12 so no. And why is she already having sex?!?!? Sounds like trouble.

    Answer by AntoinetteF at 7:22 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • whoa 13 she still a baby. Well 13 my kids aren't dating anyone...but who's to say their friends aren't having sex! So I think a serious sit down should be done and talk to him about EVERYTHING! i started talking to mine now and he's 7(we started our talks at 5) Is this your child? If so good luck mama

    Answer by kyheavensmom at 7:23 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I'd say no. 12 and 13 is just too young. If she's experienced there's a greater chance that she might want to experiment with your son. That would bother me immensley.

    Answer by fricky29 at 7:29 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

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