My SO and I have been together for 9 months. He travels alot for work and works extremely hard. He has been hurt really bad by his ex girlfriends. They left him because he works too much. I love him and he loves me but I can tell he has issues with abandoment. He always says he is so scared I'm going to leave him because everyone always does. How do I ease his fears? I'm going to be busy myself with school and work and my son, it is super hard to be away from him so much but I'm willing to make that sacrifice. Any ideas?
Thanks, I am just confused....
Answer by ConcernedMomma2 at 8:12 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Answer by JackieGirl007 at 7:54 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Answer by hopeandglory53 at 7:53 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Answer by Lucky209 at 8:03 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Honestly since you have a son (the way this is posted it sounds as if it is NOT his child) and you are planning on going to school there are MUCH MORE IMPORANT THINGS in your life than a broken man. When you have a child and are single you can NOT play the games that you could before you were a mom. There is no reason to date a broken man. Wait, go to school, find a man who doesnt need to be fixed. One with out complications. Blending a family is hard enough there is NO reason to bring chaos into your childs life when he is already starting off with out the normal family situation.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:07 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Answer by loudnproud87 at 8:09 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
Answer by hopeandglory53 at 8:27 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
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