I am pregnant with our first baby ( girl ) , I plan on going back to work when my maturnity leave is up .
My fiance said he wants his sister to babysit the baby, because he wants our daughter to grow up close to the family and he trusts her, however seeing as she has 2 young kids and a small house I would prefer one of my friends do it.
Now his sister is upset because she said she had planned on watching her , but I dont think that is my fault because I didnt tell her she could. My main friend that might watch my baby has a bigger house and her child is 9 and hardly there , so I can expect her to pay more attention to my baby.
Now my fiance keeps saying "mean" things about my friend and being very immature because he isnt getting his way ...
This just makes me so mad that I can barely think straight !
Asked by Anonymous at 8:43 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by midnightmoma at 9:17 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
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Answer by princessbeth79 at 9:20 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
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Answer by itsmesteph11 at 9:28 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
I don't agree with your husband basically acting like a child and putting your friend down. I would "scratch" all of that though and focus on the task at hand. She hurt her back? So isn't it going to be hard for her to care for a newborn? A 9 year old doesn't need to be picked up and held all the time. Also, I am not judging her messy house by any means I'm just asking if she has it clean ENOUGH that your child won't in just a few months time, be choking on items she hasn't picked up.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 9:33 PM on Apr. 20, 2011
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Answer by matthewscandi at 9:46 PM on Apr. 20, 2011