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If your s/o accidentally contracted HIV (not from cheating) would you stay with him ?


Asked by gwen20 at 11:29 PM on Apr. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I'll be honest, I will probably not be able to stay with my DH.
    I know how you contract HIV, I know how to be safe around someone with the disease, but will not change the fact that I know he has it and everyday things will still be hard for me. Kissing, cuddling, sex.

    I love my dh and I know he loves me...If I were to contract the disease I would MAKE my dh leave me.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:32 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Or course. Chances are I would already have it before he ever found out anyways. It's not like it's something that shows up right away.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 11:32 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • For better or for worse through sickeness and in health for richer or poorer

    Answer by Jersey_class at 11:30 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • If it was no fault of his own(cheating or drugs) then yes

    Answer by mammaangelof4 at 11:43 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Yes, I love him with every fiber of my heart and soul...I would stay with him until the bitter end

    Answer by Lucky209 at 11:43 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • if he didnt get it from cheating or drugs... lets say he got it from a blood transfusion wouldnt it be cruel to leave him.
    What if it were cancer.. I wouldnt leave then.

    If you leave (like anon, though I appriciate her honesty) isnt that kind of like saying he is only around for sex and if he isnt good for that then he is a waste of time.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • Yes it would be no different then if he got cancer, or became paralyzed etc....


    Answer by Charis76 at 12:21 AM on Apr. 21, 2011

  • how would you ACCIDENTILY catch HIV?

    Answer by notjstasocermom at 8:07 AM on Apr. 21, 2011

  • Yes. I love him, & we are only going to be with each other.

    Answer by EdwinsMommy at 11:29 PM on Apr. 20, 2011

  • I can't imagine not. I've lived through a lot so far, this would just be something else to deal with.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 11:30 PM on Apr. 20, 2011