I posted about my ex wanting to be in the delivery room and my wanting to move out of state in order to provide for my child (as my ex has no job) and I am barely making ends meet. Many people basically said how dare I keep him out of the delivery room and move away, even though I have every legal right to do either. But they also acted like I was insane for wanting him to help me pay my medical bills if he wanted to be in the delivery room or get ultrasound pics or updates on the pregnancy. So I have to give my ex everything he wants and can't ask ANYTHING from him????
Asked by Anonymous at 11:10 AM on Apr. 21, 2011 in Relationships
I didn't read all the other ESSAY answers but here is mine. F*ck him! You are right. You have to carry, deliver and pay for a baby while he gets to do, say, and spend whatever he wants how he wants. Why should you give him a break? Keep ALL your receipts and get your court order. Don't have anybody you can't stand in the delivery room. You should enjoy your delivery not be stressed out. He can see the baby after the delivery.
Answer by KoolMom617 at 12:10 PM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by laird6372 at 11:17 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by matthewscandi at 11:18 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by kitchenwitch78 at 11:20 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by minnesotanice at 12:16 PM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by yesmaam at 11:21 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by yesmaam at 11:23 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by laird6372 at 11:32 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by laird6372 at 11:53 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
Answer by laird6372 at 12:01 PM on Apr. 21, 2011