I have been married for 7 years. It has been rocky at times but we have worked it out. Around December my husband lost his job because of retaliation. His story is he took his manager to lunch and she returned the favor back in November rumors flew he told them to stop and he got fired (she's still there). Since then I know he is texting her constantly and calls her during the day and after I go to bed (he insists I go early since I am working) I looked at the phonoe bill today. He also tells me stories about his buddy and him but I know he's talking about her. He goes towards her area once a week and I think he is taking her to lunch and possibly buying thigs I don't have access to his accounts which we pay the bills out of. I give him most of my money. He does goes out with out me but he's done that most of our married life even after our child was born. I have confronted him and he swares there just friends. He told me about an almost while I was preg and living else where because he was working. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be the psycho wife stalking but I can't handle this much with all the doubts. He even accidently took off his status of married last night. He told me as soon as he did it. He was messing with it and deleted it but couldn't put it back on on his phone. I sent a request to add it his response why why worry everyone know's were married. I feel the tension but he is home 95%, cooks and still intimate. Am I reading into this wrong. I am confused and need some suggestions. I love him truely. On another note we were talking one night before it got to this point and he said if it happens which not planning he would like me to live in the area and have week on week off with our son. (I put him to bed, bath, feed him etc... he doen't keep him at home when he gets the opportunity and has only spent 3 nights alone with him there are other things to go along with this.Answer Question
Answer by loudnproud87 at 11:39 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
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Answer by Chloesmom1126 at 11:46 AM on Apr. 21, 2011
I'm not sure I completely understand everything you've but: 1. Your husband should not be telling you when to go to bed. 2. Status changes when you go thru the process to change it, it doesn't accidentally change on its own (at least in my limited experience with technology. 3. If he's already talking about custody arrangement, he is thinking about it. 4. He should not be taking a woman out to lunch and buying her things at all - unless its his mother. I would plan on leaving or kicking him out. At this point, again if I've understood the situation at all, I would have lost all trust in him. I think he's lied to you and he's romantically and emotionally and sexually involved with this other woman. I would not stay in a relationship like this.
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