My SO has a BAD CROWD he hangs with. He works with most of them & we hang out with them together whenever he does see them out of work. BUT my problem is allllll of them are into pills & smoking weed like ALL the time. They are SO dumb they literally smoke weed on their lunch breaks & shit. Its stupid. They dont' just smoke weed at their home & keep it to themselves. ya know ?? He's known these guys for like over 5 years. Most of them since he was in middle school. The one he met in college & was real close with straightened himself out & they really don't talk much anymore. Go figure right ? My SO was smoking weed occassionally when I met him. He no longer does. He got caught & took the wrap 4 yrs ago for his ex's oxy. That's dropping off of his record his August. I'm in a HUGE custody battle. My ex is doing everything he can to take my son from me. His friend called me yesterday and asked him if he could get rid of some pills. My SO of course said no & that he isn't into that shit anymore, but sent him to his work place. I told my SO its me or your druggy friends. Of course I didn't say it in a mean ass way or anything. I'm just getting to the point on here. lol "I can't risk you getting in trouble with them bc I will lose my son. If you get in trouble with drugs again, I can't be with you. I can't. My son comes first at all times." He said "ok babe I understand & of course I'm going to pick you. You are the woman I want to spend my life with. I come home to you. They are no bodies to me compared to you & your son. I know I'm starting a family with you guys and you guys mean the world to me. I don't ever want to do anything to risk losing you two."
With my SO reaction, I feel SO BAD! I feel like a big evil woman. He said he knows its time to grow up & knows those friends aren't good people to hang with bc they are into some bad shit. I just feel SO guilty about this.
HELP! lol No bashing of me or SO plz. Just supportive & helpful answers.
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