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Why is she interested?

I recently accepted a friend request on FB from a girl I went to HS with. I knew who she was but we were never friends or anything and I haven't seen or talked to her since we graduated 6 years ago. Anyway as soon as I accepted the request she immediately IMed me. I thought it was weird at first because we never talked like that before but since she is also a mom now I thought it might be nice to get to know her better, but after a few minutes she started asking me all types of personal questions like whether or not I live on my own or at home, whether or not I'm with my son's father, and why we aren't married since we've been together so long, etc. Wth? It just seemed she asked too quick to be simply making conversation, I mean she literally went from "hey remember me?" to "so is your son's dad in the picture?" Who does that? Why do you think she was so interested? Just being nosy??

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:32 AM on Apr. 22, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • nosey it seems

    Answer by booger14 at 1:34 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • Probably nosy. And perhaps just wanting to make whatever situation she's in seem better.

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 1:39 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • i wouldnt tell her anything. you never know what peoples intentions are anymore. i would just be nonchalant!

    Answer by KiraStadnik at 1:41 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • could just be trying to play catch up! So what did you do?>

    Answer by KariLyn84 at 1:43 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • I would just say "sorry that's personal business and I don't feel comfortable sharing that information with you." Close the IM and be on your way. If she gets bitchy I'd delete her nosy self.

    Answer by SMITxsM2 at 1:47 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • Sounds sketchy. If she's not a real friend of yours, don't feel guilty if you want to delete her. No point in keeping in touch with someone you were never friends with to begin with.

    Answer by DusterMommy at 1:51 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • Sounds kinda weird. Maybe she's interested in your ex ?

    Answer by istealcookies at 2:24 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • Maybe she's lonely.

    Answer by LoraGardiner at 4:38 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

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