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Why do you post a question?

When you post a question do you really want an answer or do you just want people to agree with you?
I am surprised by some people on here if you don't seem to have the same opinion as them then you are deemed harsh or mean. i have to laugh at this b/c when i ask a question i want simply that answers not people to just agree with me. Anyone else feel this way??

 
amberpaiz

Asked by amberpaiz at 11:50 AM on Apr. 22, 2011 in About CafeMom

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  • I often give my best answers to people who aren't in agreement with me. I really ask questions to get all point of views.
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 12:05 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • It's a bit of both. I just ignore the harsh people
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:51 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • I feel that way sometimes....but not with the questions I post... but I see alot of that when I'm reading other's posts.... when I ask a question, I like opinions from all areas :) P.S. some people are just miserable with their lives and tend to rain on our parades :)
    katieandchris01

    Answer by katieandchris01 at 11:53 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • To see other peoples answers!
    mrs.keen

    Answer by mrs.keen at 11:54 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • i ask because i either want to know the answer or i am trying to see if i am correct and others agree
    zoejains_momma

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 11:54 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • yeah it seems like some people can't do that tho
    amberpaiz

    Comment by amberpaiz (original poster) at 11:53 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • yeah i kinda like more of a roller coaster than a parade tho!! haha mix things up a little!!
    amberpaiz

    Comment by amberpaiz (original poster) at 11:54 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • I will be perfectly honest and admit that sometimes I have an agenda and do get annoyed when people don't agree with me but I only do that when I'm in a mood. Most often, I ask questions to get answers and ideas for myself or to provoke thought but I have no anticipation about answers.
    Nonoluna

    Answer by Nonoluna at 11:55 AM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • i can appreciate your honesty nonluna and i bet you probably word your questions that way. maybe if more people were more forthcoming about this then they wouldn't get so offended about it.
    amberpaiz

    Comment by amberpaiz (original poster) at 12:07 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • To start a conversation
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 3:52 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

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