My lil brother is staying with us, my hubby, daughter and I, and Im pregnant, and he is waiting to try to join the military and attempting to go to school. But he is always lying to us and using our car when i told him i didnt want him to cuz it has problems and he is irresponsible. He does nothing around the house and is depending on us to take care of everything he wants which we can not afford. he seems to think we are made of money. He is constantly disrespectful and lies to us constantly and blames all his problems on us. He isnt doing anything he is supposed to be doing as far as going to school and getting into the military is concerned. Im trying really hard to be patient with him since he is my lil brother and doesnt really have many choices as to where he can go. But i have told him he needs to work on some specific issues or things arent gonna work out with him staying... he isnt doing anything i asked. Should i keep trying to be nice and hope he leaves for the military in june? what are your thoughts... he is driving me insane!!!
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