umm, my brother and I are 12 yrs apart in age. Our Mom has two miscarriages between us. Our infant brothers are burried in a city cemetery in our home town.
My question is: do you know, if we'd need premission to fix up these plots? I'm sure not just anyone can go start moving stuff around. My brother is just like, we're family we can do it. I'd rather get premission from someone...
Anyhow, all that is here is a metal plaqe stating infant son of... I've looked up actualy birthday date and death dates and thier given names. (freaked me out, that my son, as the same first name as one of them. My brother and I were never told the second babies name. We did know the name of the first baby, because there was a birth certificate in our parents papers)
Anyhow, is speaking to my Mom about a month ago, after the death of her Aunt - I'd asked her what her wishes were when she passed away. She started that she'd want her ashes to be placed with her two infant son's. Is this possable?
And do you have an suggestions, on a way to incorortate this into the memorial we'd like to place on our brother's grave sites?
My children and I went by the cemetery this morning, as we're in town for Easter with my Mom. My son is a Cub Scout entering into Boy Scouts this next year - I'd suggested to him that fixing up the graves could be a service project for him, if he wanted.
My brother called, as he won't be home for Easter this year. I have to break that to my Mom, later today. AND I spoke to him about fixing up the grave sites, as we'd talked about it over the years several times, but never acted upon it. BUT I also, don't know, if we should include her in the fixing up of the grave sites or suprize her with the finished project..???
Answer by twinsplus2more at 5:56 PM on Apr. 22, 2011
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