I'm so tired of it. No matter how you do things, what you say. It's not right. You don't spend your money right, or raise your kids right, you don't act right. No matter how nice you are. It's unreal. The thing is, the person doing this to us, has tons of issues themselves. This person has no right to be worrying about how others live their lives. I'm so tired of her telling us we don't manage our money, we supposedly don't watch our kids,my husbandand I supposedly are in trouble, and so much more. And get this, I have no idea how this person would know all this about us seeing as we don't share this info with anyone, and we don't see them that often. It's all unfair assumptions. I know I shouldn't care, and I don't have to explain myself to anyone. But it still hurts. I do have to be around this person, for valid reasons I'd rather not get into. So just take my word for it, cutting them off completly isn't an option. Is this ever gonna stop??Answer Question
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Answer by momto4girzls at 10:26 PM on Apr. 22, 2011
You need to be up front and honest about it. My parents were always negative growing up. They never said, "You can do it". They always found the negativity in things. Well when I said I wanted to cloth diaper my dd, all I got was negativity and being told "it will be too hard" blah, blah, blah. I got mad and went off. I said that this was my choice and I was going to do it. And I told them how negative they were and how annoying it was. I said that I am a good mom and I want to try something else and said that if they don't like it then they can get out of my life because I didn't need their negativity. Well, my dad has really backed off. You need to be honest and blunt. If that doesn't work, then cut them off.
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