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How to livin it up again

when youve been together so long so you just cohabitate but dont even really communicate how do you change it


Asked by flipper4u21 at 10:59 PM on Apr. 22, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (6)
  • Let him know you are not happy. Tell him what you feel, and why. And tell him that you both need to make an effort in it.
    If in the end, you are truly the only one that wants change, i would think about moving on. You deserve to be happy, and with someone who wants you happy.
    Good luck!

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 5:46 PM on Apr. 23, 2011

  • start talking! :) Take interest in the other person....

    Answer by BeachyBabe at 11:26 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • At Christian marriage retreats I have attended, they always advise you to go back to doing the things that made you fall in love in the first place--dating and so forth.

    Answer by CoffeeWriter at 11:55 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • thats the problem i cant get him to talk to me or spend any time with me i have borderline personality disorder so i do pretty much adapt to his enviroment it doesnt help

    Comment by flipper4u21 (original poster) at 11:46 PM on Apr. 22, 2011

  • and i have tried that the real problem i think is im the only one who wants it to change

    Comment by flipper4u21 (original poster) at 12:03 AM on Apr. 23, 2011

  • thank you i have tried all that and its been 11 yrs i finally got strong enough to leave him and now that i finally am he doesnt want to leave and says im trying but after all hes done its not enough or the right things he is a very cruel cold hearted man

    Comment by flipper4u21 (original poster) at 5:57 PM on Apr. 23, 2011