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BDSM mamas - how do I find someone with the same kink? adult content

I am 99.9% lesbian. I can really only picture any future romantic relationships(I am single ATM) being with a woman. However, I do notice attractive men, and have the occasional sexual fantasy about sex with a man. PLUS...for the past several months I have been craving sex with a man where there is pain inflicted on me. Riding crops, whips, hot wax, that sort of thing. Oh, and rough anal. I don't know if I'd call myself a masochist because I have no desire to be humiliated, and I am definitely NOT a sub. If I get involved in the BDSM community, will I be likely to find a man who is happy to give me what I want, or are my requirements too narrow?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:53 PM on Apr. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • WOW, here's a bump

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 11:56 PM on Apr. 23, 2011

  • embarrassed


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:57 PM on Apr. 23, 2011

  • lol! I would suggest trying It's a dating site for the BDSM community. I'm sure you could find something along the lines of what you're looking for in a guy, including the non-relationship part.

    Answer by an-apple-a-day at 12:37 AM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • Thanks apple. I'll check it out.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:14 AM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • You might also try or even craigslist as well. Good luck!

    Answer by musicpisces at 2:32 AM on Apr. 24, 2011


    Answer by isabellalecour at 8:13 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

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